When it comes to proposing, the image that usually pops into our minds is someone getting down on one knee with a velvet ring box in hand. But who says you have to stick to tradition?
Maybe you’re not keen on the grandest of gestures and would prefer to outsource having to say ‘will you marry me?’’. Perhaps you have an arthritic knee and are worried about toppling over when you propose? Or, maybe you’re just worried about getting your new trousers dirty?
Regardless of your reasons, if you’re looking for creative and unique ways to pop the question, then we’ve got you covered. No, we’re not going to pop the question for you, but rather, we’re here to offer these 8 fun and frivolous surprise proposal ideas (that don’t involve getting down on one knee!).
The Treasure Hunt Proposal
If your significant other loves solving puzzles and riddles, why not create a personalised treasure hunt for them? Leave a series of clues or riddles around your home or even across town, leading them to the final destination where you’ll be waiting with the engagement ring. You can make it as simple or elaborate as you’d like – the key is to tailor it to your partner’s interests and make it a memorable adventure.
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The “Marry-oke” Proposal
Is your sweetheart a karaoke enthusiast? Do they love the sound of you blasting out the latest Harry Styles hit in the shower? Well, this idea is perfect for music lovers and those who aren’t afraid of a little public performance. Organise a karaoke night with friends and family, and select a song that holds special meaning for your relationship. When it’s your turn to sing, change the lyrics to incorporate your proposal. As you belt out your love-infused tune, present the ring to your partner for an unforgettable and (hopefully!) melodious moment.
A few song ideas for the songbirds out there:
- Archie, Marry Me by Alvvways
- Marry Me by Jason Derulo
- Marry You by Bruno Mars
- On My Way (Marry Me) by Jennifer Lopez
- Marry Me by Dolly Parton
Or hey, if you’re musical, why not pen your old proposal song? It could either be the most embarrassing flop of your life, or something truly romantic.
The Birthday Proposal
Make it a birthday to remember (and help you remember your ‘proposal anniversary’ for the rest of your life!) by proposing to your partner on their birthday. But where does the ‘surprise’ bit come in, we hear you ask?
Well, here’s a fun and frivolous way to do it; wrap up a customised balloon in a box which reads those magic four words and present it to your partner as though it was their birthday gift! Sure, they might be disappointed that you hadn’t bought them, say, a new Macbook, but if it’s true and everlasting love, this is certainly a unique way to pop the question.
The Customised Puzzle Proposal
For the more introverted and cerebral couples, consider designing a customised jigsaw puzzle featuring a picture of the two of you. In the middle of the puzzle, include the words “Will you marry me?” As your partner puts the pieces together, they’ll slowly uncover your heartfelt message. This low-key and intimate approach allows you both to savour the moment privately before sharing the news with others.
The Flash Mob Proposal
If you’re looking to make a grand gesture, a flash mob proposal might be just the ticket. Enlist the help of friends, family, or even professional dancers to perform a choreographed routine in a public place, checking the legality of organising the flash mob first of course (there’s nothing like a police presence to ruin your proposal).
As your partner watches in awe, join in on the performance and surprise them by revealing the ring at the end of the dance number. This high-energy and theatrical approach is sure to leave a lasting impression.
The Artistic Proposal
Are you and your partner art aficionados? Collaborate with a local artist to create a one-of-a-kind piece that incorporates your proposal. This could be anything from a painting to a sculpture, as long as it holds personal significance for both of you. Arrange a private viewing at an art gallery or even in your own home, and watch as your partner’s eyes light up when they realise the artwork is more than just a beautiful piece – it’s a symbol of your love and commitment.
The Culinary Proposal
For the foodies out there, why not incorporate your shared passion for cuisine into your proposal? Plan a romantic dinner at your favourite restaurant or one of significance to you, like the scene of your first date, and work with the chef to create a special dessert featuring the big question written in chocolate or icing (we’ve seen too many ‘ring in the cake’ disasters on TV to recommend that route!).
Alternatively, consider taking a cooking class together and enlist the help of the tutor – perhaps they could teach a class which culminated in some sugar work that spelled out a particularly sweet proposal?
The Adventurer’s Proposal
For the thrill-seekers out there, consider an adrenaline-fueled proposal. Plan a skydiving, bungee jumping, or hot air balloon excursion, and surprise your partner with the proposal mid-flight, perhaps even mid-air. The rush of excitement and sense of adventure will make this moment even more unforgettable.
The Bottom Line
Proposing to your partner is a momentous occasion that deserves a creative and memorable approach rather than the tired old ‘down on one knee’ carry-on. By thinking outside the jewellery box and incorporating your shared interests, you can create a unique and unforgettable experience that reflects your love story. Now, when can we expect our wedding invitation in the post?