It’s one of life’s big moments; when the realisation dawns on you that the roles have shifted and that now you are responsible for your parent’s welfare, and not the other way round. Things can shift into stark reality, and the passing of time becomes a very real thing to confront. Therefore, it’s important that you step up and help them in their time of need, and take proactive steps to make this transition as seamless as possible. With that in mind, here are 4 IDEAL tips to help you care for your ageing parents.


A good place to start when you have ageing parents in need of more assistance is to assess the situation as an entire family. Gather your siblings and parents, and hold a family meeting so that you can better determine what their unique needs are, and whether those can be taken care of ‘in house’, or whether a professional will need to be involved

This is also a good time to address their living situation and to make sure they’re receiving the health benefits they require to stay well, fit and active. You should consider dividing up the responsibilities across the board so that one family member doesn’t feel too overwhelmed by a burden of responsibility. 


Though it might fee an intrusive suggestion at first, it might be necessary to attend your parent’s doctor’s appointments in the future. For example, you may notice one or both of your parents are having trouble hearing when you’re interacting with them. In this case, schedule an appointment with experts on the subject, like, to see how they can help facilitate an improvement. If possible, go along with them so you can understand what the treatment options are and ask the right types of questions. 


We know, we know; life can get in the way. But it’s really important to stay in frequent contact with your parents as they get older, both over the phone and in person. The last situation you want is to go days without speaking to them and then find out they’re in trouble or hurt. You can better care for your aging parents by keeping in touch regularly, and seeing if there’s anything they need help with or that you can do to make their lives easier. Switch around days with your siblings so you can all take turns checking in and helping to address any problems that arise.


Although you’re caring for your ageing parents, you still need to attend to your own needs and that of your family’s. One of the best things you can do for you folks is to encourage them to socialise on a consistent basis and meet new friends. Look into local senior resources and activities that your parents can take advantage of as a way to interact with others when you’re not around.

It’s important that they continue to stimulate their minds and engage in life if they want to feel happier and more content. Another way to get them to stay in touch with others is to teach them how to use technology and social networking platforms. Though it might seem an ask at first, getting familiar with tech can open new doors for them in a surprising, positive way.